Question: 

I’m 15 years old, and i had to move from Texas to Ohio… me and my boyfriend are in love. and he said he would wait for me. and i have been gone for almost 3 months. he calls me every single night and we text all the time, he tells me everything, and I’ve cried to him over the phone and on the web cam, and he’s even shown me his emotions, i know he will wait for me. I was just wondering if most guys would do the same. My boyfriend doesn’t talk to other girls, and he has a jealous side. and frankly so do i(: but i love him enough to where i trust him fully and i know that he would never do anything to hurt me. he’s waiting for me, and i miss him so much.. i thought this whole being gone thing would get easier over time.. i was wrong. completely. it is just so hard. and i am sick of always being depressed and so is he. its hard to keep a long distance relationship. and i would not recommend it to anyone! but i am coming back to Texas, for visits and possibly permanently. we don’t know anything yet, but its still scary. and I’m scared to lose him.

i guess, what I’m asking is if anyone has ever been in the same condition and what is a good way to deal with it? or… if any of you guys would have the balls to wait for the person you loved.

Answer:
Trying to make a long distance realtionship is a great idea when you are under 18 and in love. Many do try hard and have good intentions.

Yet as time goes by 3 years in a teenagers life can change so much and most of the time this is your first love!

First Love feels like one of the best things in this whole world when you are so new to love and the whole exp. This is very painful when lost maybe the most painful because it’s the first time you felt the loss of losing a person you really loved. I myself went throw and felt the same pain at your age yet he moved away not me and we both felt the way you both do..

However your first love yet so special is not really ment to be your last love. It’s what I like to call your learning phase your first real exp with love.

This will hurt for a long time yet as time goes by one of you will move on if the distance is not stopped it’s just nature, sometimes the woman tends to move on even faster then the male.

You will allways hold each other in your hearts and never forget but long distance most of the time never works. The pain will get better and more easy over time to let go.

You have so many dating exp’s in your life to go throw before you make the choice of who you will marry so look at this as a positive thing. Today you might not but one day you will.

I will not tell you what you want to hear i will tell you the truth!

Originally posted 2010-02-25 05:04:32. Republished by Old Post Promoter

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